Is it unreliable to borrow a car? My colleague drove the engine to 6,000 rpm to save trouble, causing damage to the engine. In the end, he asked me to pay a high maintenance fee. Let me teach you how to view the boundaries between trust and responsibility.
Actually, to be honest, this happened quite suddenly. How could I have thought that my manual car could be driven out of a high-speed car accident? I don’t usually have many cars, and I basically use them for commuting to and from get off work. My daily driving habits are quite stable, and the power and speed control are okay. I just didn’t expect that a group of friends would be so heartless as to treat my car as a borrowed toy. At first, I thought it would be a simple matter to borrow a car and let him use it. It was not worth mentioning anyway.
In this story, the protagonist is my colleague Xiao Zhang. That day, he was in a hurry to use the car and borrowed it without much thought. In fact, to put it bluntly, I was just lazy and wanted to save some money on a taxi. I hadn’t driven very far, before I even got out of town, when I heard the weird sound of the engine—a low grunt that suddenly turned into a hoarse sound. This made my heart sink, and I immediately guessed: something happened.
I hurried to the repair shop and listened to the master’s explanation. It was almost as if the veil was torn apart, and the truth lay before my eyes – the engine speed soared to more than 6,000, and the parts were severely worn. Think about it, the normal speed in urban areas does not exceed 3,000 rpm, and occasionally the speed is only about 4,000 on the highway. Who knows that he suddenly became greedy for speed and forced the speed to the limit. I didn’t have any reason to argue with him on this point. After all, he admitted it himself: I stepped on the accelerator hard and heard the engine sound, but didn’t pay attention. These words made me feel blocked.
I just looked through my notes and estimated that it would cost about 12,000 to repair my car. This number is a bit estimated because not all parts may need to be replaced, or it may just be repaired, but the general direction is similar. What’s even more troublesome is that this accident made me start to wonder: Why are car factories, supply chains, and maintenance workers so closely related to our daily car use? It’s like assembling a Lego. Many parts look clean, but if there is a problem with the core inside, the whole car is ruined.
This actually reminds me of the R&D aspect. When selecting the batch of engine oil, parts and materials, the supply chain was actually a game. If a manufacturer wants to ensure supply and quality, the cost must be equalized. You have to guess: How big can the metal shavings in a can of ordinary engine oil be? I haven’t actually thought about it, but from the pile of debris, I can see that the internal parts have gradually worn out, and the appearance of micro cracks and metal shavings is not accidental. As my friend the car repairman said: Look at those metal scraps, it probably took less than two years from wear and tear to final collapse. I was stunned. This car is only three years old. Every major maintenance and parts replacement has rarely caused problems, and I have no problem with my daily driving habits. But within a short period of time, there was a problem with the parts.
This makes me wonder: Is there something wrong with the factory’s material use system? Some parts from suppliers may have glossy shells, but the internal materials are actually unsatisfactory. You see, all the materials used are real materials? In fact, it’s not that simple. On the one hand, it is cost saving, on the other hand, some parts may not be up to standard. Just like when you go shopping for groceries, the bright appearance may not be able to hide the flaws inside.
What I said before may be biased. In fact, the manufacturers cannot be entirely blamed. After all, driving habits are also a big problem. Yes, it was that brother’s golden operation. They say that quick reaction and seizing the opportunity on the road are part of driving skills, but he stepped on the accelerator too hard that day and didn’t realize it yet. When driving, you have to pay attention to your speed and be careful. This incident made me think about the word responsibility again. Does it feel like you are staring at your future destiny every time you drive? I was so sure of myself.
Let’s talk about the influence of this good friend on me. Xiao Zhang is usually a very down-to-earth person, but this time he chose to cut through the mess with a quick knife, obviously without thinking too much – even if he said: I will just go to the suburbs to pick up people, I didn’t drive fast. I’m thinking that no one can escape the influence of habit. I think speeding at high speeds is cool, but there are actually quite a lot of risks hidden behind it. Especially the driving attitude of the people around you will greatly affect the life of that machine.
Putting myself in my shoes, if I were myself, would I relax like this and rush as soon as I feel like nothing is wrong? After all, I usually don’t drive hard, but sometimes, when I’m busy rushing to meet time, my hand slips and the speed involuntarily increases higher than usual. Thinking about those times when I was in a hurry at night and pressed hard on the accelerator, I didn’t know what to do, and I still felt guilty after all. This is: I should be more alert. The car is a manifestation of life, not just a tool to attract attention.
I still remember that I just flipped through my notes and read the accident report. The sentence “the speed reached 6,000 rpm” made me feel cold. At that moment, I realized that the hard lesson was: a car is a responsibility. The responsibility lies with oneself and others. If you think about it, just 2 seconds for a speed peak like this is enough to cause severe mechanical deformation, and a lot of parts may need to be replaced several times in a row. You said that repairing the engine is no cheaper than buying a new car. It’s really not a cost that just anyone can afford.
This made me realize that trust is actually a touchstone of responsibility. When I lend a car to a friend, of course I have to trust that he will take good care of it—otherwise, buying insurance is not an exaggeration. This lesson made me realize clearly: You can’t just believe the surface, you still need to see the habits, experience and details. Otherwise, trust becomes blind trust, and I might have to foot the bill if something goes wrong.
What do you think, should you tell your friends directly next time: Before borrowing a car, you’d better tell me your driving habits, otherwise I’ll have to pay for the wear and tear. Have you ever encountered something similar? The blockage in my heart is that I don’t want to be tricked again. The cost of car damage is not a large amount, but the feeling is difficult to measure with money – the feeling of being hurt by someone you trust is a bit ridiculous.
After all, when borrowing a car, you still have to pay attention to the conditions. A thousand percent sense of security does not lie in the price of the car, but in the person driving it. Many times, I think this matter is like a game: you press the accelerator desperately, but what about others? They only care about their own pleasure. Eventually there was a problem, and money was still denouncing the boundaries of responsibility. Like this time, I lost money and face, and I had to emphasize many times: Don’t borrow a car easily in the future unless you are very familiar with and understand the person.
This is a reality and a lesson. Have you ever thought that lending a car to others is not only a convenience, but also a form of trust. However, once something goes wrong, it cannot be solved by simple responsibility. Moreover, maybe next time it is your turn, the unlucky person may be myself.
(I won’t comment on this paragraph for now, but I’ve been thinking about it. The more I use a car, the more I care about it. What do you think? Is it worth trusting someone so much when borrowing a car?)
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